Whether it is money worries due to a crippling recession, or keeping
busy on social media such Facebook or Twitter, there seems to always be
something to distract us Brits in our day-to-day lives.
So much so that it seems these factors could be behind the revelation
that couples in Britain appear to be having sex less now than at any
other time during the last two decades. This is according to the
findings extracted from a national survey on sex habits.
The figures from the National Survey of
Sexual Attitudes and Lifestyles (Natsal) – conducted only once per
decade – involved 15,000 participants aged 16 to 44. It would seem that
modern life is having an impact on the libido of people from all ages.
To understand the decline, men polled during 2010 to 2012 stated that
they had sex on average 4.9 times a month and women were around the
same at 4.8. The survey, the third in the series, was carried out
between September 2010 and August 2012.
However, the same survey from 1999 to 2001 found that men had sex
roughly 6.2 times on average per month, whilst women were again at about
the same number; 6.3.
Even further back, during 1990 to 1991 shows that men were having sex
6.4 times on average per month and for women it was 6.1 times. Clearly
something has changed in the subsequent years.
Dr Cath Mercer, from University College London, said: “People are
worried about their jobs, worried about money. They are not in the mood
for sex. But we also think modern technologies are behind the trend too.
People have tablets and smartphones and they are taking them into the
bedroom, using Twitter and Facebook, answering emails.”
Dr Mercer also deduced from the survey’s findings that couples aged
16 to 44 could even be turning to online pornography as an alternative
to sex.
Lead Natsal author Professor Kaye Wellings, of the London School of
Hygiene and Tropical Medicine, said that stress caused by the recession
and more people working even when away from the office are likely to be
key factors for the decline.
“In a recession we find an association between unemployment and a low
number of sexual partners, perhaps due to low self-esteem,” she
commented.
Professor Wellings added: “The change in women’s behaviour across the
three surveys has been remarkable. In some areas of sexual behaviour we
have seen a narrowing of the gender gap, but in others we have seen
women overtaking men in the diversity of their behaviour. These trends
need to be seen against the backdrop of the profound changes in the
position of women in society, the norms governing their lifestyles and
media representations of female sexuality.”
The survey, analysed by researchers from University College London
and the London School of Hygiene and Tropical Medicine, also quizzed
older people about their sex lives.
According to the results, 60% of men and 42% of women aged 65 to 74
had had sex in the previous year, albeit not on a regular basis compared
to other groups. On average, men aged 65 to 74 were having sex 2.3
times per month and only 1.4 times for women.
There were also some other interesting findings from the survey, for instance:
. A sixth of UK pregnancies are not planned.
. Half of men reported a recent sexual problem; impotence or a sexually transmitted infection are just some of these ‘problems’. Only a tenth were worried or distressed about their sex lives however.
. Around 15% of men had experienced a lack of interest in sex.
. Women under the age of 44 have an average of sexual 7.7 partners, while for men it is 11.7.
. After the survey in the year 2000, more people accept same-sex relationships but are now less tolerant of a cheating partner.
. Around 3.6% of men admitted to paying for sex in the previous five years, compared to hardly any women.
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